Thursday, December 14, 2017

human mind

i love to read human mind. But only philosophies is boring sometimes. we need to also learn about facts and figures.

That will make life more interesting. Simply the fact is that no one will want to become stagnant anymore.

So when I searched for that, i learnt that to start a real estate business a certificate is necessary.

There are a lot of coaching classes in coimbatore. I need to join my son in those atleast two at a time for a period of a year depending upon his age and interests.

I need to focus on his cursive writing and Tamil writing to some extent

I should also keep myself engaged in some activities to make my life interesting

When I ask some people, they go to the worst extent in significant relationships and because they were willing to sacrifice they were able to make the relationship work

Everyday on job learning is very important. It should be something like stories. You must be able to create even from everyday facts that you come across

Writing and reading evryday
Learning new languages

If you are not ready to do something, do not worry about that, because keep yourself engaged in activities of interest, that will help you not to worry about what you cannot do and focus more on what you wanted to do

If something someone talks is disturbing your peace of mind or if by any ways you feel that they are acting superior to you, just avoid that topic and change the topic and never give any importance to what they say and just ignore it. Do not talk or think about it. But if there are any lessons that you learn from it remember that



Like I always said -- One thing to learn is --  Be open to facts and develop your interest in talking about it like a story

Second thing is --  Someone sings praise about themselves, just ignore it and dont take it personal even if they are putting you down or not

Everyone will have a tendency to talk proudly about themselves.Find the positives in them and negatives in others.

It is better you dont spend much time thinking about others but instead focus on strengthening your strengths and reducing the weakness.

If you expect Thank you from someone the best way to deal with that is not complaining about it to anyone, instead saying thank you everytime to them will also make them learn that you are doing  afavour



Sunday, April 19, 2015

Timetable

Get up at 6.
Start cooking and finish at 8

Study Time:
8 to 1 total 5
1 to 2 make kutty sleep
study time
2 to 4 total 2

4 to 5 tea and bath
 study time
5 to `10  total 5


total 12, 2 hrs kutty study and walk
total 10 hrs study




Friday, April 17, 2015

fight and solutiom

I dont want another child.

I dont want to cook
I dont want to clean the kitchen
I dont want to clean the bathroom
I dont want to wash and fold all clothes


I want to take care of my only child
I want him to be in good health both mentally and physically

I want to eat food from outside with my own money
I want someone to cook for me everyday
I want someone to clean my kitchen and bathroom
I want someone to wash my clothes and give it neatly folded
I want a job that suits my aptitude and attitude
I want someone tro take care of my child when im doing my job.

I read books and watch movies because I dont have a job that I want and i do all works that  I dont want to do


If my husband shares all that i dont want to do,atleast  during weekends and lets me to prepare for the job, i want and doesnt hurt me my saying that he is going to office and im at home doing all that i dont want to do, i would be fine..
minimum i need a recognition, atleast for doing some thing that i dont want to do

She has to understand me. I want to acheive something in my life for which I need some financial freedom and some time. To get that, I want my wife to take some responsiblities. Thats is, either financially or by taking care of household works and my son without needing my time or partially in both the aspects. She also has to understand and adjust her desire according to my need or have to work hard to satisfy her desire herself.

I want to acheive something in my life
I need some financial freedom and some time.

She has to understand me.
I want my wife to take some responsiblities.-financially/taking care of household works and my son completely/some financially and some taking care of household works and my son
adjust her desire according to my need
have to work hard to satisfy her desire herself.

Reduce cooking
Morning dosa for child
evening chapathi
afternoon rice + vegetable


Morning cereals for both of us
Evening chapathi for me with sugar+ rice for him with rasam
afternoon rice+vegetable+rasam for usn



morning i cook and clean
evening you cook and clean

one week i clean bathroom
one week u clean bathroom


daily 8 hrs of study


when you vacuum, I will mop the house.

once a week chicken/fish or outside




2 hrs in the morning to cook and clean

4 hrs to study before he comes home in the evening
4 hrs to study in the night'

















Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Projects

Project 1: My son

1. i will not shout at him
2. i will go in his way and satisfy his needs
like reading, drawing

I had a problem with his adamant behaviour and he was shouting and talking exactly like me.
But he is a soft boy, with very good qualities. So i wanted to make good use of him and help him to come up in life.

Project 2. My Job


1. i want to do a project everyday. It shouldnt be just reading.

Everyday achievment will always help you, whether u get a job or not, earn or not.

Saturday, February 7, 2015

Communicating

Texting: Texting is good as long as you limit the messages to one or two and convey whatever you wish to communicate.I dont like to send continuous messages as i have lot of work to complete, lot of books to read and a lots to accompalish. If someone doesnt reply back i dont want to worry about being ignored and if im not able to reply immediately or continuously, i ponder, will they feel that im ignoring, though im not and im just busy with my own work..